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Introducing Toys in the Bedroom

 

Now that the movie Fifty Shades of Grey is very popular all over the world and that there are a lot of people who is talking about sex toys and are curious about trying them out but they are also too embarrassed to use it.

 

Listed below are some of the misconceptions about adult sex toys.

 

o             Most people do not use sex toys in the bedroom. - Well, let clear this one out. There are a lot of respectable people who uses adult sex toys and these also include people who are considered to be perfectly normal. When you use sex toys, it does not mean that you are "odd" or your relationship is not normal. Well, for most people who use sex toys, it helps them create a more fun experience while in the bedroom. Of course you do not have to tell your friends about it, your mother and even your boss that you use sex toys in the bedroom nit unless if you really want to.

 

Adult toys are only used for masturbation - Most often, adult sex toys are used for masturbation but there are many couples who enjoy using them together and it does not matter whether they are male or female, heterosexual or homosexual. Most often, these couples are very much comfortable in trying out new things together and they are very open-minded about it and very trusting.

 

If you want to learn more about sex toys, you can visit https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Male_sex_toys.

 

o             When you use sex toys, your partner would feel inadequate. - Most first time users, they would often feel nervous in bringing an adult sex toy into their bedroom, some would think that they will hurt their partner's feelings. Well, with the help of an adult sex toys, it will give you orgasm. Although having a sex toy is an object to substitute to a real person. But if your partner has fear of using it, you have to be very sensitive about it and just stroke his or her ego a bit. Having a good communication is the key to every relationship.

 

o             Sex toys can be dangerous physically - This is a big NO! Adult sex toys actually create positive effects of your relationship and your sexual health.

 

o             Using sex toys often will not give you and your partner orgasm. - Well, if your partner is worried that you will replace her or him with the sex toys, you have to assure him or her that there will never be any changes in the bedroom. You can try different positions, fantasy play, light bondage and new toys, check it out!

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